I have always been studying in a boy’s school and college. Now I am in university where girls are more than boys. Now I face problem in continuing my education. I always feel that people are making fun of me. However, life has changed from last two months. That happened because I found a friend (female) who also used to stay alone like me. She has also expressed her feelings towards me. Now I feel happy when I am going to university every day. But I am also scared of losing my love.
(Hammad Khalid, Karachi)
Advice:-
You need to realize you aim of going to the university. If you aim was to gain education, then you need to focus on this aim and concentrate on that. This is too early to get involved in such love feelings. You need to stay normal in the co-education as you studied in a boy’s school.
Pain of soul
Rooh ki Takleef
Few years back my cousin came back from London. He was of different nature, his behavior, eating habits, talking, walking, in fact everything was wired. He used to smoke a lot that our house used to be full of smoke of his cigarettes. He used to drink tea a lot. Everyone at home was upset from him. I was the only one who took care of him. Whenever he was short of cigarettes. I used to buy for him from my own money. My mother never felt that bad but my father showed his anger at times. My aunty sent a proposal for me for her son. Initially my mother did not agree to this proposal. But when she agreed, it was already too late and my cousin had already gone back to London. Now one of another cousin of mine has come from London who said that boy doesn’t take my name even once.
(N. Kotli Azad Kashmir)
Advice:-
A person’s personality can be judged through his behavior. Relatives keep coming and going and it is not wise to take their presence so seriously and get attached with them so much. Why are you taking things so seriously about him and giving others a chance of ruling over your feeling. If he does not talk about you then you should not feel bad about it and you don’t have to mourn on it. Forget whatever happened and move on in life. You need to have a good company in order to lead a good and happy life.
Interest of catching snake:-
Saanp pakarney ka Shauk:
I am scared of insects. Snakes, Scorpios, lizards and ants are scary for me. My siblings scare me more from these things. I still remember when I was young my mother and ants also used to get scared from all these things. But I see people holding snakes in there hand. Sometimes I also want to get over this fear and hold snakes in my hand. But my fears over rules my wish.
(Sana, Lahore)
Advice:-
Parent’s way of thoughts greatly affects their children psychology. When they see their parents getting scared of something in their childhood. Automatically they adopt the same fear from them. People who live in cities are scared of insects whereas those who live in villages or forest areas are not. It is normal for anyone to have a fear of something that he faces for the first time in life. Women are mostly scared of lizards, cockroaches, and insects and they don’t even try to get over this fear. Almost all have fear of snakes, Scorpios or such poisonous insects and this is normal. People who carry snakes and very well familiar with the skill of tackling them. They are aware of their poisonous and how it can be taken out. You also need to stay away from snakes as you do not have any information about them.
Fulfilling wishes
Buland maqasid ki takmeel
I am studying in cadent college. I was very naughty but also intelligent. My families were fed up of my naughty behavior. They admitted me to a college without my will. I always tell my father that I want to take admission somewhere else. But my father disagrees with me and considered this much better place for my bright future. I am unable to explain him that the life is different here. I can only visit my family in vacations.
(Irfan Ahmed, Lahore)
Advice:-
It is very good that your father has selected a good institute for your benefits. Don’t worry you will only succeed your life only after some difficulties. You will have to sacrifice your wishes for better life. You will get many opportunities in life later and then you can fulfill your wishes.
Treatment of infertility:
Methi powder (4 Masha), Black seed powder (4 masha), pure honey (half cup)
Mix all ingredients and take it daily with a cup of milk. Husband and wife should read Durood Taj 7 times for 21 days on dates and eat it.
